| Obesity:
A burden to sex life
Married couples face problems varying from emotional
imbalances to physical weaknesses. But today they identify
another critical problem, which can provoke them into
seeking a divorce. Obesity.
A condition in which our fat tissue expands far beyond
regular levels to the point where it impairs health.
Common behavioral symptoms of obese people
- They feel frustrated, helpless and alone in life
- Believe they are unwanted
- Fear if their partner really loves them
- Feels ashamed to expose their body
- Lack the confidence of satisfying their partners
sexually
- Fear if they can ever come out of this disorder
- Do not listen to or believe their partner who consoles
them and cares about them
- Adamant to believe that they can be good in carrying
out sexual activities
- Think they are the problem in marriage
- Feel that nobody can understand them
- They are convinced of being unattractive and ugly
Insecurity creeps in to the institution of
marriage. Small fights lead to bigger ones mainly due
to lack of communication and misunderstandings. No matter
how well the partner tries, once you are caught in the
depressive cycle of Obesity, it is difficult to come
back unless you think positively and decide to work
your way out. In this battle to contain a disorder you
end up losing your happiness, your partner and in the
end yourself.
So, do not take Obesity lightly. If
you are following unhealthy
eating habits, make it a point to improve on your
diet. If you have the tendency to gain weight fast,
always stick to regular exercise patterns. On the other
hand, if the disorder has already done the damage, meet
your doctor and ask for a weight loss plan or diet which
best suits your body. Today there are various diet plans
like low carbohydrate diets, appetite suppressant pills,
fat burners etc that is useful for the treatment of
Obesity.
Now, if your partner is overweight and obese, support
her/him to join a good diet program. Exercise
and healthy eating habits also contribute to a happy
life. Apart from this, you can do that extra bit to
make your partner feel at ease and find happiness once
again. Here are a few tips, which will help:
- Don't worry if your spouse is not listening but
tell her/him that you are sexually attracted to your
partner
- Obesity is a sensitive subject for them. Listen
to them carefully. Don't argue, try to look at things
from their point of view as well
- Don't make any negative statements about your partner's
body. Always be careful
- Go out of your way to mention all the positive
things about your partner
- Make your partner feel wanted
- Spend extra time with her/him
- Go out together and spend time talking and knowing
each other. It will bring a sense of closeness
- Be supportive of your partner in front of others
- Don't talk about Obesity when both of you are with
friends or family. Remember, it is a sensitive subject
The appropriate way to tackle this disorder is to avoid
it. The impact it has on a person's life is alarming.
Sometimes, it can be a serious threat to your family
life, to your career or precisely your health. So be
alert and insist on a healthy life no matter where you
are. For such disorders should never hamper you from
having a wonderful sex life or a family life.
About the Author
Chris Read, An associated editor to Hateweight.com. |
